Parenting Email Program
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Hello!

This week we're covering a lot. First, we’ll tell you about a tool to track your baby’s milestones. Then we’ll talk about eating while breastfeeding or chestfeeding. Then we’ll give you some ideas on how to listen and respond to your baby. Finally, we’ll talk about the six-week postpartum appointment and what to expect.
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Looksee Checklist

Today we want to share a tool that many parents love. The Looksee Checklist can help you track your baby’s development by just answering a few questions.
By one month of age, does your child:
  • Look at you?
  • Startle to loud or sudden noises?
  • Calm down when comforted?
  • Suck well on the nipple?

Follow up with your health-care provider if you answered ‘no’ to any of these questions, or if you have concerns about your child’s development. The sooner a delay is addressed, the sooner you can help your baby.

If your child was premature, check the website for guidance about which checklist to use.
View the Looksee Checklist
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Healthy eating and breastfeeding or chestfeeding

There are lots of myths about what you can and can’t eat while breastfeeding or chestfeeding. The truth is, you can eat just about anything! Here are a few healthy eating tips:
  • Aim to eat three meals a day with healthy snacks between. Meeting your energy and nutrient needs will help you feel your best when feeding your baby.
  • Eat a variety of healthy foods and take a multivitamin with 0.4 mg folic acid everyday.   
  • Choose water to quench your thirst. Limit or avoid sugary drinks. These include pop, juice, fruit drinks, sports drinks, and sweetened teas and coffees.
  • Limit caffeine to 300 mg per day (about two cups of coffee). Too much caffeine can make you feel jittery. It also passes into breastmilk and can make your baby wakeful and irritable.
  • Know the risks of other substances before using them. Alcohol, cannabis, and tobacco pass into breastmilk and can harm your baby.
For more information about healthy eating call Health811 Ontario by dialing 811 to speak to a Registered Dietitian.
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Listen, respond and connect with your baby

Your baby's relationship with you is key to their health, development, and well-being.

Listen:

  • Spend time face-to-face with your baby. Smile at your baby.
  • Put your screen aside as much as possible. Phones, tablets, and televisions can distract you connecting with your baby.

Respond:

  • Comfort your baby when they are sick, hurt, or upset. You cannot spoil a baby with love and comfort.
  • Talk to your baby. Speak in a soft and gentle voice. Repeat the sounds your baby makes.

Connect:

  • Read and sing to your baby. Your baby loves to listen to your voice.
  • Get to know your baby. Discover what makes them happy or sad.
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Appointment alert: postpartum checkup

Most health-care providers will offer a six-week postpartum checkup.

Birth control
This is a great time to discuss birth control. You can get pregnant before your period returns! It is usually suggested to wait at least 18 months to two years after birth before becoming pregnant again. Talk to your doctor or check out itsaplan.ca to decide what is right for you.

Some birth control methods can affect breastmilk supply. Learn more about breastfeeding and birth control.

Mental health
Your appointment is also a great time to discuss your mental health. About one in five new moms and one in 10 dads will develop a mood disorder in the first year after their baby is born.

Remember: you are not alone, you are not to blame, and with help, you will get better.
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Libraries

Libraries have programs for every age, including drop-ins, baby rhyme time, and more. Check out your local library to learn about what programs they offer.
Find your library
Happy one-month old birthday wishes to your baby from all of us at Southeast Public Health! We’ll connect with you in two weeks when your little one is six weeks old.
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